People & Relationships
Part 1 · Interview
- Do you have a large family or a small family?
- Who are you closest to in your family?
- Do you spend much time with your friends?
- Has a teacher ever inspired you?
Part 2 · Cue card
Describe a person who has had a significant influence on your life.
You should say
- who this person is
- how you know them
- what kind of influence they have had on you
and explain why this person has been so important to you.
Sample answer (Band 7+)
Part 3 · Discussion
- What qualities make someone a good role model?
- Do celebrities have too much influence on young people today?
- How has the idea of a "role model" changed over recent decades?
- Is it better to be influenced by people we know or by public figures?
- Can a person influence others without intending to?
Sample answers
1. I'd say honesty and consistency matter most — a good role model has to practise what they preach. People also respect those who show humility and treat others well, regardless of status.
2. To some extent, yes, especially with social media, where young people are constantly exposed to celebrities' lifestyles. That said, well-informed teenagers can usually tell the difference between a polished image and reality.
3. Definitely. Role models used to be public figures like politicians, whereas now they're often online personalities. The whole concept has become far more visual and immediate.
4. I'd argue people we know personally have a deeper, more lasting influence, since we see how they actually behave. Public figures can inspire us, but it's easy to idealise someone you've never met.
5. Absolutely — we influence people unconsciously all the time, just through our habits and attitudes. Parents are a perfect example, as children pick up far more from what they observe than from what they're told.
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